Aku rasa topik yang panas dalam masa nie adalah Seksualiti Merdeka. Apa tu Seksualiti Merdeka? Apa motif dan tujuan depa? Kalu nak tau better gi laman depa terus disini.
Apa yg ditulis dalam tulisan kali nie adalah sebahgian dicedok dari komentar dari blog Teh Tarik Gelas Besar. Tulisan saudara Nami amat menarik dari pandangan org yg memasukkan dirinya ke dalam golongan yang open minded dan liberal (?). Personally aku rasa Nami sorg free thinker. Sebenarnya terdapat terlalu ramai komen di dlm post kali ini. Namun begitu, aku amat tertarik dgn komentar salah sorang pembaca yg mengaku dirinya sebagai berjiwa "gay". Beliau dikenali sebagai "whatever" dalam tulisan beliau. Semua dibawah adalah copy paste dari tulisan beliau.
FYI, Nami juga dikenali atau bahasakan dirinya sebagai Cob Nobler, dan juga, sebarang alah spelling atau short form writing dalam tulisan dibawah adalah dari penulis asal. Aku just copy paste sahaja.
Komen 1
First of..Im GAY and im NOT PROUD of it..dan aku sangat2 menentang seksualiti merdeka ni...this thing is like, drug u know...aku sorg gay yg cube sedaye upaye mngubah diri aku mnjadi straigth,sbb aku suatu hari nnti nk anak jugak n nk ade family yg bahagia....and I bet alot of people out there is like me, sbb aku sbagai org melayu n beragama Islam aku tau mnde tu salah n cube sedaye upaye utk ubah diri..
You have no idea how hard it is for us to change unless u r in our shoe..it is not simply a matter of changing ur preference as in ari ni ko nk mkn cekodok,bsok nk mkn KFC plak...simply put,kalo korg straight,bleh x korg ubah diri ko utk jdik homo, I bet its going to be hard kn,same r gak mcm ktorg...but we r trying our best to change no matter what..aku anggap ni sebagai ujian Allah pling besar utk aku...
N stuff like this seksualitimerdeka akan nyebabkan ktorg lebih susah utk ubah diri..what i found is that it is easier for me to change myself when im with straight friends then with gay friends...kite sume manusia bernafsu kn,mmg susah la nk kawal kalo nafsu tu dh same because we have not been teached utk jgn sentuh2 same laki,kite hanye diajar utk jgn sentuh yg bukan muhrim je kn,so it makes it like its not a big deal if 2guys r together, at least that is how I feel..
U might say,kalo nk ubah diri sgt tu,jgn la pegi seksualitimerdeka ni kn, what u r doing to us is the same as a drug addict who is trying to change but is presented a drug..or sng contoh lgi perokok yg nk stop tp diberikan rokok..mmg r susah nk resist kn sbb kite manusia yg bernafsu n we cant resist to temptation n im not that religious n that makes it even harder for me to resist...
Bgi aku la,tolong la xyah ikot barat tu dgn dorg gay parade n what not..dh terang2 mmg sume agame against homosexual kn..npe nk galakkn lgi?..bile pasal sumbang mahram or incest tu,tau plak korg mnde ni salah..homosexual ni beberape tahun dulu mmg dipandang keji oleh masyarakat sbb sume org tau mnde ni salah..tp after that,org barat meng"HALAL"kn homo ni n kite pun nk ikot same..
Bgi aku,aku lebih rela org pndang keji homosexual ni supaye aku pun akan rase malu n ble aku malu aku akan lbey berusaha utk mngubah diri aku..tp skng seksualitimerdeka ni mcm nk mengapprove plak gay,so ble org approve,lgi la aku malas nk tuka diri aku kn....
FYI u r not supporting us actually when u support LGBT..
Tolongla gay n lesbian out there,if u dont want to change urself, if that is really what u want, n as long as u dont harm n become a negative influence on others,then that is fine with me....ramai lagi gay out there yg nk cube ubah diri but sgt susah ble temptation cmni sgt byk....so please help us by NOT helping us..(if u get what I mean)..
Aku reda dgn keadaan diri aku n like I said,aku anggap ini dugaan paling besar bgi aku..n I say dugaan ni WILL NOT LET ME DOWN!!...NO MATTER WHAT I WILL FIGHT TROUGH LIFE!!..JUST BECAUSE I'M GAY, IT DOESNT MEAN I'M WEAK OR ANY LESS CAPABLE THAN MOST STRAIGHT GUYS OUT THERE...
This is my honest opinion..sorry for the very long komen...xtau la,tibe2 aku terase nk tulis cmni,I'm not even a blogger...I appreciate it a lot if u dont just bash me without proper explanation..we can discuss like civilise men kn...TQ n sorry..hehe..
You have no idea how hard it is for us to change unless u r in our shoe..it is not simply a matter of changing ur preference as in ari ni ko nk mkn cekodok,bsok nk mkn KFC plak...simply put,kalo korg straight,bleh x korg ubah diri ko utk jdik homo, I bet its going to be hard kn,same r gak mcm ktorg...but we r trying our best to change no matter what..aku anggap ni sebagai ujian Allah pling besar utk aku...
N stuff like this seksualitimerdeka akan nyebabkan ktorg lebih susah utk ubah diri..what i found is that it is easier for me to change myself when im with straight friends then with gay friends...kite sume manusia bernafsu kn,mmg susah la nk kawal kalo nafsu tu dh same because we have not been teached utk jgn sentuh2 same laki,kite hanye diajar utk jgn sentuh yg bukan muhrim je kn,so it makes it like its not a big deal if 2guys r together, at least that is how I feel..
U might say,kalo nk ubah diri sgt tu,jgn la pegi seksualitimerdeka ni kn, what u r doing to us is the same as a drug addict who is trying to change but is presented a drug..or sng contoh lgi perokok yg nk stop tp diberikan rokok..mmg r susah nk resist kn sbb kite manusia yg bernafsu n we cant resist to temptation n im not that religious n that makes it even harder for me to resist...
Bgi aku la,tolong la xyah ikot barat tu dgn dorg gay parade n what not..dh terang2 mmg sume agame against homosexual kn..npe nk galakkn lgi?..bile pasal sumbang mahram or incest tu,tau plak korg mnde ni salah..homosexual ni beberape tahun dulu mmg dipandang keji oleh masyarakat sbb sume org tau mnde ni salah..tp after that,org barat meng"HALAL"kn homo ni n kite pun nk ikot same..
Bgi aku,aku lebih rela org pndang keji homosexual ni supaye aku pun akan rase malu n ble aku malu aku akan lbey berusaha utk mngubah diri aku..tp skng seksualitimerdeka ni mcm nk mengapprove plak gay,so ble org approve,lgi la aku malas nk tuka diri aku kn....
FYI u r not supporting us actually when u support LGBT..
Tolongla gay n lesbian out there,if u dont want to change urself, if that is really what u want, n as long as u dont harm n become a negative influence on others,then that is fine with me....ramai lagi gay out there yg nk cube ubah diri but sgt susah ble temptation cmni sgt byk....so please help us by NOT helping us..(if u get what I mean)..
Aku reda dgn keadaan diri aku n like I said,aku anggap ini dugaan paling besar bgi aku..n I say dugaan ni WILL NOT LET ME DOWN!!...NO MATTER WHAT I WILL FIGHT TROUGH LIFE!!..JUST BECAUSE I'M GAY, IT DOESNT MEAN I'M WEAK OR ANY LESS CAPABLE THAN MOST STRAIGHT GUYS OUT THERE...
This is my honest opinion..sorry for the very long komen...xtau la,tibe2 aku terase nk tulis cmni,I'm not even a blogger...I appreciate it a lot if u dont just bash me without proper explanation..we can discuss like civilise men kn...TQ n sorry..hehe..
Komen 2
Hafif: THX!...another thing I forget to add, all straight guys out there, u should be grateful with ur life because u have not been presented with DUGAAN like us gays...pling koman pun korg akan bernafsu ngn girl n maybe sometime susah nk kawal,but at least u guys can get married and work things out(yeah i know marriage is not an easy thing,but at.least u can work it out together)..but for us gays, we cannot get married, n we r even suppose to be together...
susah weyh nk kawal nafsu,same cam korg nmpk pompuan hot msti xleh duduk diam,same cam kami,nmpk laki hot pun xleh duduk diam,but what else can we do,duduk diam jugak la kn...
Pling susah bile pgi semayang Jumaat,serius time ni aku kene kuatkan gle iman aku,kalo xmate nk mengusha je lelaki2 laen, same gak cam korg kalo dlm dewan yg pnoh pompuan,msti nk mengusha gak kn....
This is not about descrimination,this is about right n wrong...aku xrase didescriminate pun,sbb aku ade bbrape straight friends yg tau pasal diri aku,n I like that they NEVER encourage me in gay lifestyle...I like that they treat me like a straight guy, sbb dorg slalu tanye aku da ade awek ke blom,aku SUKE gle ble dorg tnye soklan cmni,sbb aku rase ianya mcm satu doa..n aku pun jdik smngat nk mncari awek suatu hari nnti...
PLEASE DONT ENCOURAGE OR SUPPORT US!!..PLEASE UNDERSTAND WE R ALREADY IN SO MUCH STRESS TO CONTROL IT WITHOUT ANYONE ELSE GIVING TEMPTATION..
susah weyh nk kawal nafsu,same cam korg nmpk pompuan hot msti xleh duduk diam,same cam kami,nmpk laki hot pun xleh duduk diam,but what else can we do,duduk diam jugak la kn...
Pling susah bile pgi semayang Jumaat,serius time ni aku kene kuatkan gle iman aku,kalo xmate nk mengusha je lelaki2 laen, same gak cam korg kalo dlm dewan yg pnoh pompuan,msti nk mengusha gak kn....
This is not about descrimination,this is about right n wrong...aku xrase didescriminate pun,sbb aku ade bbrape straight friends yg tau pasal diri aku,n I like that they NEVER encourage me in gay lifestyle...I like that they treat me like a straight guy, sbb dorg slalu tanye aku da ade awek ke blom,aku SUKE gle ble dorg tnye soklan cmni,sbb aku rase ianya mcm satu doa..n aku pun jdik smngat nk mncari awek suatu hari nnti...
PLEASE DONT ENCOURAGE OR SUPPORT US!!..PLEASE UNDERSTAND WE R ALREADY IN SO MUCH STRESS TO CONTROL IT WITHOUT ANYONE ELSE GIVING TEMPTATION..
Komen 3
Cob: Thats the thing...the same as perokok...mmg da kuar fatwa kate rokok n shisha tu haram kn tp people are still doing n proudly doing so because masyarakat mcm dh xkesah pasal mnde ni...org xpndang serong sgt dgn perokok2 ni...bgi masyarakat yg xmerokok,as long as die xmerokok depan aku so aku xkesah...sikap buat xkesah ni la mnyebabkan mereka ni sume troskan tnpe rase bersalah walaupaun dh terang2 mnde tu membahayekan kesihatan....
aku ade rmai kwn yg cubr nk brhenti merokok tp gagal sbb rmai org yg duk hulur2 lgi rokok kt dorg..aku xmerokok n aku penah ade kwn yg aku tego supaye stop n die stop kejap ble die dgn aku,tp ble kami dh xbrkwn,die merokok blik sbb die member2 sume merokok..
The anology here is the same,if one day sume org approve or buat xkesah ngn homosexual ni,mmg maken bertambah la gay couple out there yg berpacaran..n ble korg ade anak nnti n tnye korg,ayah2,npe 2 org laki tu jalan pegang tangan n pelok2, xkn korg dgn selambenye nk jwb dorg tu gay nak...pastu mule la anak korg tnye lgi soklan susulan n korg pun mule la risau kalo anak korg akan jdik gay gak nnti..
Cube kalo sume society pndang serong dgn perokok,mcm sume "descriminate" dorg,korg rase dorg akan cube brsungguh utk stop x instead of tros BUAT XKESAH...sume org nk berkwn,xde spe yg nk jdik forever alone,n kwn play a major role in shaping us whether its good or bad...we will tend to become like out friend more or less...
So same la kn,kalo korg sume hate us,we will try to change..actually xperlu la hate smpai nk bash or bunuh kn,but just simply DONT ENCOURAGE US n DONT SUPPORT WHAT WE R DOING!...
Sorry cob,aku phm niat ko yg xnk descriminate org,but u have to understand,u r not in our shoe n u have not gone through what we have been through...we know what is best for us n how to survive...xpnah kn ade berite kat malaysia yg gay bunuh diri sbb stress ke (xdela maksud aku nk kene tnggu smpai ade)..what i mean is,we r a lot stronger then u think we r....we dont care if hate or descriminate us,we know HOW TO SURVIVE WITH ALL THOSE INSULTS...so dont worry about it and DONT CHANGE IT....
Please I say it again,PLEASE DONT SUPPORT,u r making it harder for us....n for those yg xnk ubah tu,DONT WORRY,WE CAN HANDLE OURSELF...we dont need ur pity..seriously...peace bro..
aku ade rmai kwn yg cubr nk brhenti merokok tp gagal sbb rmai org yg duk hulur2 lgi rokok kt dorg..aku xmerokok n aku penah ade kwn yg aku tego supaye stop n die stop kejap ble die dgn aku,tp ble kami dh xbrkwn,die merokok blik sbb die member2 sume merokok..
The anology here is the same,if one day sume org approve or buat xkesah ngn homosexual ni,mmg maken bertambah la gay couple out there yg berpacaran..n ble korg ade anak nnti n tnye korg,ayah2,npe 2 org laki tu jalan pegang tangan n pelok2, xkn korg dgn selambenye nk jwb dorg tu gay nak...pastu mule la anak korg tnye lgi soklan susulan n korg pun mule la risau kalo anak korg akan jdik gay gak nnti..
Cube kalo sume society pndang serong dgn perokok,mcm sume "descriminate" dorg,korg rase dorg akan cube brsungguh utk stop x instead of tros BUAT XKESAH...sume org nk berkwn,xde spe yg nk jdik forever alone,n kwn play a major role in shaping us whether its good or bad...we will tend to become like out friend more or less...
So same la kn,kalo korg sume hate us,we will try to change..actually xperlu la hate smpai nk bash or bunuh kn,but just simply DONT ENCOURAGE US n DONT SUPPORT WHAT WE R DOING!...
Sorry cob,aku phm niat ko yg xnk descriminate org,but u have to understand,u r not in our shoe n u have not gone through what we have been through...we know what is best for us n how to survive...xpnah kn ade berite kat malaysia yg gay bunuh diri sbb stress ke (xdela maksud aku nk kene tnggu smpai ade)..what i mean is,we r a lot stronger then u think we r....we dont care if hate or descriminate us,we know HOW TO SURVIVE WITH ALL THOSE INSULTS...so dont worry about it and DONT CHANGE IT....
Please I say it again,PLEASE DONT SUPPORT,u r making it harder for us....n for those yg xnk ubah tu,DONT WORRY,WE CAN HANDLE OURSELF...we dont need ur pity..seriously...peace bro..
Komen 4
The only reason how I ended up in ur blog was because a friend tweeted about it, u dont know how far the ripple of ur action will go,maybe ko rase hal kecik je,tp bile hal2 sensitif cmni,better xyah la ko tulis....
FYI,aku bknnye bgos sgt pun,bknnye kuat iman pun,tp aku tau right n wrong n aku xkn sentuh sensitif sbb aku xnk org kecoh pun...aku tulis komen ni dgn hati2 supaye nk elakkan drpd sesape terase,kn bgos kalo sume blogger tulis cmni....
y do we need to start bickering anyway?..in the end kite tau xde spe nk ngaku kalah kn..its the 1st law of "egoistic society"..hahaa..
aik!!kali ni xdak plak pandangan dari ang...aku suka baca penulisan&pandangan how u see dari hang...keep it up!!
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